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The Narcissistic Mother Wound

Do you find yourself asking:


  • Why do I feel unloveable?

  • Why do I never feel good enough?

  • Why do I feel so empty?

  • Why do I always doubt myself?

You could be living with the narcissistic mother wound. You can take the quiz below to find out if your mother or caretaker had a narcissistic tendency.


For many years my life was burdened by a voice lodged in my head that always told me I wasn't good enough and needed to achieve more.

My internal critics were saying highly evil things.

Every time I looked in the mirror, they told me, "you're ugly."

They would snap at me when I approached buyers for the product in my business, "No one's going to want to buy your designs. You're not qualified enough.

It didn't matter how hard I tried. Nothing was ever good enough.

And because this was consistent daily input, I believed that everyone else around me was judging me just the same.

One day I woke up and couldn't take anymore. These inner critics were wrecking me. I decided something had to change, or I wanted out of this world. It wasn't worth living this way.


I was high achieving on an external success level but inside of me the list of symptoms was extreme: